A Letter To Kolkata

Raymond

Before I start, I acknowledge the fact that this blog is long overdue. However, I feel it is unnecessary to apologise, as being late in India is acceptable therefore my actions are totally fine. Thus this may be a bit long (warning in advance). Anyways, let's begin.

Dear People of Kolkata

Out of this place, where garbage decorates the sidewalk, where the smell of human excrement never leaves your nose, where the pollution makes it safe to look at the sun directly and where beggars never let go of your clothes; lies an oasis of smiles, positivity and possibility. Colloquially known as the "City of Joy", the landscape could be described as anything but, yet it is the people, who wholly fulfil this namesake. While my journey in Kolkata has come to an end, this place has left me with a lot of food for thought.

To the workers at Freeset, your work deserves more recognition. The support, expertise and more importantly, the opportunities you offer to these marginalised women is truly unique and inspiring. Your selfless crusade to contribute to something greater than yourself has taught us to look beyond what is immediately in front of us, that our life is about more than just ourselves, and to help those who are neglected, forgotten, helpless and vulnerable. I hope your work will continue to provide more new beginnings for women on "the line" and others will be able to see your work, assist you in this endeavour and lead other helpless women to your cause. I wish you the best in the future.

Despite my short time with you, I have been deeply touched by the children at Future Hope (what a fitting name). Your rehearsal of "The Lion King" was absolutely awesome and a pleasure to watch. There are some truly talented children in this bunch and it would be rather difficult to deduce that some of these come off the street. My debrief group and I had the fortune of spending an afternoon/evening with the young girls (aged 5-12). 

I was lucky enough to share the time with their "leader", Sanjana. At age 11, this young women was wise beyond her years. She was mature, intelligent and organised and she earned her respect from the other girls (well deserved). Reading through her work, I realised how determined and hard working she is despite her unfortunate upbringing. Her desire to be a doctor reflected these characteristics as well as her incredible selflessness. Despite her stack of homework,she was generous with her time as she graciously hosted 8 teenage boys (and Tom), allowed us to occupy the small but homely bedrooms and served us a delicious meal. Never in my time with her did I see her have a frown as a smile was always on her face. Her optimism, in spite of her challenges, is admirable and is something I will carry on with me. It was an absolute pleasure to share my time with these kids. In particular, the girls insisted we record our birthdays into their shared homework diary. Usually this is exclusive to their friends so it was especially touching to all of us boys.

I was also pleasantly surprised to meet her again, this time at the tag rugby tournament at the Maidan on Sunday. I may have not been with her team however I saw her charisma, skill and leadership on the field. It was awesome to see what this girl can do and I am positive for what she'll achieve. Although I pity their predicament, I am inspired and I believe that Future Hope with provide them with guidance and support to allow them to exceed their potential. 

Speaking of rugby, never did I expect myself to be playing this gam - in India of all places. The Jungle Crows proved to be formidable opponents, skilful teammates but crucially, great friends and hosts. I spent the majority of a day with a boy named Anurag, who besides his age, was a very different character to me. He was an extremely hospitable guide who always put our group on their toes. His contagious smile made sure a frown was never upon my face despite the demanding day we had. We were welcomed into his house and despite being small in size, the warmth and atmosphere of the place was comforting and inviting. Through our short day, I learned a lot about this boy, not only his backstory but also his immense kindness and humbleness. Reflected in the Crows themselves, the Jungle Crows is a fantastic organisation who were able to break the barriers between 26 New Zealanders and 30 Indians through the game of rugby.

To the kids I had the privilege of coaching rugby - yes, me with barely one knowledge of the game decided to lead a training session. Your future is bright. Your spirit, positivity and energy will take you a long way in life. I am optimistic that you will grow up and build a better Kolkata for future generations. To the kids in Brooklyn, thank you for teaching me that, in a place where you have nothing, having a smile could mean everything. Shocked at the poverty you endure, I left your homes deeply saddened and guilty, yet through the adversity, your hope and resourcefulness is something I deeply admire.

Kolkata, I don't miss you, but I long to be back to meet the amazing individuals and organisations I have had the privilege to meet. I have made an abundant amount of new friends, I have been taught important life lessons and I have gained a new perspective on life. I am grateful to the people of Kolkata and I thank you for being my host.

I hope to be back. Take care, your friend 

Raymond 

(Excuse the length)